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Aegosexual

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I-Aegosexual, eyaziwa nangokuthi i-autochorissexual, igama elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza abantu abasesilinganisweni se-asexual abahlangabezana nokunqanyulwa esihlokweni sokuvuka inkanuko. Naphezu kokuhlanganyela emaphupheni ocansi, bedla okuqukethwe kocansi, noma ukushaya indlwabu, ngokuvamile abakhangeki kangako ngokocansi. futhi ungafisi ukuya ocansini nabanye Okuhlangenwe nakho okuvamile kwalabo abathandana nabobulili obufanayo kufaka phakathi: 1. Ukujabulela okuqukethwe kocansi, ukushaya indlwabu, noma ukucabanga ngocansi kodwa uzizwe ungenandaba noma unyanyiswa umqondo wokuba sebudlelwaneni bocansi bangempela 2. Ukuphupha ngocansi ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka komuntu siqu, ngokuvamile ukukubheka ngokombono womuntu wesithathu noma ukucabangela abanye abantu abafana nosaziwayo, abalingisi benganekwane, noma abangani 3. Ukucabangela abantu abangenabuso noma ukubona isimo ngombono womunye umuntu kunokuba bona 4. Ukuphupha nje kuphela ngabo ngaphandle kokuhilela abanye, ngokuvamile ngendlela enengqondo nengenangqondo, enezici ezingokoqobo ezenza umqondo wocansi ungakhangi noma unyanye. 5. Ukubona umuntu othandeka ngokocansi kodwa ongazizwa enesifiso sokulala naye empilweni yangempela, uncamele ukuphupha ngaye noma ukumncoma. 6. Ukujabulela okuqukethwe okuvusa inkanuko ngenxa yesimo noma ukuguquguquka kobudlelwane endabeni kunokukhangwa komuntu ngamunye okuhilelekile. Ubungqingili bungase bufane nobulili mbumbulu, okubhekisela ekutholeni ukukhangwa okungezona ezocansi okulingisa ukukhangwa ngokocansi, okuvamise ukuholela ekuvukeni kwenkanuko noma ekukhuphukeni kwe-libido. Ukulingana kwezothando kwe-aegosexuality i-aegoromantic. UDkt. Anthony Bogaert, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esisebenza ngobulili bomuntu, wasungula igama elithi "autochorisexual" ngo-2012. Ngaleso sikhathi, ukungazinaki kwakubhekwa njengokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ngakho wakuhlukanisa njenge-paraphilia. Lokhu kwaholela engxabanweni ezungeze igama elithi "autochorisexual," lapho abantu abathile bekhetha ukuhlonza enye ilebula ethi "aegosexual." NgoNovemba 2014, umsebenzisi we-Tumblr ogama lakhe lingu-Sugar-And-Spite waqamba igama elithi "aegosexual" ukuhlinzeka ngenye indlela okulula ukuyibiza "i-autochorisexual" kanye nokususa ukuhlukaniswa kwangempela njengepharaphilia. Abanye abathanda ubulili obufanayo bebengakhululeki ngencazelo kaDkt. Bogaert ye-autochorisexual, okuholela ekudalweni kwezinye izincazelo ezinemibono ehlukene yokuthi ingabe abantu abathandana nobulili obufanayo bayakukhangwa yini ngokocansi. Ifulegi le-aegosexual, elifana nefulegi le-asexual, linonxantathu onemibala ngokulandelana okuhlukile. Unxantathu umele okuphambene nobungqingili, njengoba abantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo ekuqaleni bangase babonakale njengabantu abathanda ucansi. Imibala inezincazelo ezifanayo nezefulegi le-asexual, nomugqa ompunga omelela ukuvusa inkanuko njengento ephakathi. Amafulegi ahlukahlukene akhona, ngalinye linezithombe ezihlukile zombala nezincazelo ezidalwe abantu abahlukene emphakathini wabantu abathanda ubulili obufanayo.

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