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Androsexual

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Androsexual yigama elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza umuntu okhangwa ikakhulukazi amadoda, abesilisa, noma ubudoda. Igama elithi "andro" lisuselwa egameni lesiGreki elithi "andr-", elisho indoda noma owesilisa, kanti " "ocansini" lubonisa umkhakha wezocansi. Lokhu kukhangwa kungatholwa abantu banoma ibuphi ubunikazi bobulili, okuhlanganisa kodwa kungagcini nje kwabesilisa abangama-cisgender, abesilisa abashintsha ubulili, kanye nabantu abangakhethi kanambambili abazibona njengabesilisa. I-Androsexuality ingenye nje kweziningi ocansini oluwela ngaphansi kwesigaba esibanzi sokukhangwa abobulili obufanayo. Umqondo we-androsexuality usekelwe ekuqondeni ukuthi ukukhetha okushiwo ubulili akukona kanambambili kodwa kukhona ku-spectrum. Ivuma futhi iqinisekisa ukuhlukahluka kobulili bomuntu ngokubona ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abakhangwa abantu besilisa bazikhomba njengabesifazane. Ngokungafani nokuthanda ubulili obuhlukile, okuwukukhangwa ngokocansi kwabantu abangabodwana bobulili obuhlukile, futhi ubulili obuhlukile buhilela ukukhangwa abantu bobulili obufanayo noma labo abanobulili besilisa. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi i-androsexuality ilebula elizazisa lona, futhi abantu bangalisebenzisa ukuveza ulwazi nezifiso zabo. Abantu abahlukene bangase bahlonze leli gama ngezizathu ezahlukene, futhi ukuqonda kwabo kungase kuhluke. Abanye abantu bangase bayisebenzise njengelebula eyinhloko ukuchaza ukukhetha kwabo kwezocansi, kanti abanye bangase bakuthole kufaneleke kakhulu njengokukhetha kwesibili noma okuhambisanayo. I-fluidity nobunkimbinkimbi bobulili bomuntu buziboleka ezinhlobonhlobo zobunikazi, okuvumela abantu ngabanye ukuthi bathole imigomo ehambisana kakhulu nolwazi lwabo. Abantu abathanda ubulili obufanayo bangase bakuzwe ukukhangwa kwabo ngamadoda nobudoda ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Abanye bangase bakhangwe isethi ethile yezici zomzimba ezifana nezinwele zobuso, ukuma komzimba, noma iphimbo, kuyilapho abanye bangase badonswe izici ezingokomzwelo nezobuntu ngokuvamile ezihlotshaniswa nobudoda, njengokuzethemba, ukugomela, noma umuzwa wokuzivikela. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukukhangwa kuwukuhlangenwe nakho okujulile komuntu siqu futhi okucabangelayo, futhi okungabangela umuntu oyedwa ukuzwa isifiso nokuxhumana kungase kungabi nomthelela ofanayo komunye. Ukuqonda komphakathi kanye nokwemukelwa kwe-androsexuality kuye kwavela kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, nakuba izinselele nokucwasa kusaqhubeka. I-Homophobia, i-biphobia, kanye nokubandlululwa kwabantu abanobulili obungeyona into kanambambili kungadala imigoqo kubantu abathanda ubulili obuhlukile ezicini ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwabo. Isimo sengqondo esinjalo sokubandlulula singathinta ubudlelwano babo bomuntu siqu, ukufinyelela ekunakekelweni kwezempilo, indawo yokusebenza kanye nempilo enhle iyonke. Ukudala umphakathi obandakanya wonke umuntu noqinisekisayo kukhuthaza ukwamukelwa, ukuqonda, kanye nenhlonipho ngezimo zobulili ezihlukene kanye nobunikazi bobulili, okuvumela abantu abathandana nabobulili obuhlukile ukuthi baphile ngokweqiniso futhi ngaphandle kokwesaba. Sengiphetha, i-androsexuality yigama elisetshenziswa ukuchaza umuntu okhangwa kakhulu ngokocansi ngamadoda, abesilisa, noma ubudoda. Ivuma inhlobonhlobo ebanzi yocansi futhi ihlinzeka abantu ngabanye ngendlela yokuzihlonza kanye nokuveza okukhangayo. Abantu abathandana nobulili obufanayo bangase bakhangwe amadoda ngokusekelwe ezicini ezingokomzimba kanye/noma ezingokomzwelo ezihlobene nobudoda. Ukwamukela ukubandakanywa, ukwamukela, nokuqonda kubalulekile ekukhuthazeni umphakathi olinganayo kubo bonke abantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungubani ubulili noma ukuzikhethela ubulili.

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