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Aroflux

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I-Aroflux yitemu elisetshenziswa ngaphakathi kwe-asexual ne-aromance spectrum ukuchaza umuntu umuzwa wakhe wokuma oshintshashintshayo noma oshintshayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Iwuphawu olungena ngaphansi kwegama lesambulela le-aroace, elihlanganisa abantu abahlonza njengabo bobabili abamnandi nabangenabulili. Okokuqala, ake siqonde izingxenye ezimbili zaleli gama.I-Aromanticism isho ukuntula ukukhangwa noma ukungabibikho kwemizwa yothando kwabanye.Asexuality, ngakolunye uhlangothi, isho ukungabibikho kokukhangwa ucansi noma ukuntula isifiso socansi. Ubudlelwano. Nakuba lezi zimo zihlukile, zivame ukuphambana, futhi abantu ngabanye bangakwazi ukuhlonza kokubili okungafani nobulili kanye nephunga elimnandi. Manje, i-aroflux iqhubekisela phambili lokhu kuzizwisa ngokuhlanganisa ukushintshashintsha kokushintshashintsha. , noma bangase badlule ezikhathini lapho ukusondelana kwabo kwezothando kushintsha khona ngokuphelele. Ukuqina, ubude besikhathi, kanye nemvamisa yalokhu kuguquguquka kungahluka kakhulu kumuntu nomuntu. Esinye sezici ezibalulekile ze-aroflux imvelo eguquguqukayo yokuma komuntu ngamunye kwezothando. Ngokungafani nezimo ezimile ezihlala zingashintshile kukho konke ukuphila komuntu, abantu be-aroflux bangathola ukuthi imizwa yabo iyashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lokhu kuguquguquka kungenzeka kancane kancane noma ngokuzumayo, lapho abantu bekhomba ngamaphoyinti ahlukene ku-spectrum yothando ezigabeni ezahlukahlukene. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi isipiliyoni sabantu be-aroflux singahluka futhi sihluke kumuntu ngamunye. Abanye abantu be-aroflux bangase babe noshintsho oluvamile futhi olusheshayo endleleni yabo yothando, kanti abanye bangase babe nezikhathi ezizinzile noshintsho lwezikhathi ezithile. Abanye bangase bahlonze ngamalebula athile noma izigaba ezingaphansi kwe-aroflux spectrum, njenge-demiromantic, grayromantic, noma i-lithromantic. Ukuqonda kwe-aroflux njengomqondo kusavela, kunezingxoxo ezengeziwe nocwaningo olwenzeka phakathi kwemiphakathi enganabulili nephunga elimnandi. Leli temu lihlinzeka abantu ngabanye ngolimi lokuxhumana ngezipiliyoni zabo futhi baqinisekise ubuqiniso besimo sabo sothando esishintshashintshayo. Abantu be-Aroflux bazulazula ezinseleleni ezahlukahlukene njengoba behlola futhi beqonda izindlela zabo zothando. Umphakathi uvame ukugcizelela ubudlelwano bothando njengento evamile, futhi lokhu okulindelekile kungaba nzima ukubuyisana kulabo abathola ukukhangwa okuguquguqukayo. Ukwengeza, ukuxhumana nalezi zinguquko kubangani, umndeni, noma ozakwethu abangaba khona kungaba inselele, njengoba lezi zinguquko zingase zingangeni ekuqondeni kwendabuko kobunikazi bothando. Imiphakathi eyesekayo nezindawo zidlala indima ebalulekile ekunikezeni abantu abahlukahlukene umuzwa wokuba ngabathile nokuqonda. Izinkundla eziku-inthanethi, njengezinkundla namaqembu enkundla yezokuxhumana, zivumela ukwabelana ngolwazi, izeluleko, nezisetshenziswa. Le miphakathi ikhuthaza indawo lapho abantu bengaveza khona uhambo lwabo oluhlukile, baqinisekise ulwazi lomunye nomunye, futhi baphonsele inselelo izinkambiso zomphakathi ezithinta ukukhangwa kwezothando. Kubalulekile ukuhlonipha kanye nokwazisa isipiliyoni sabantu be-aroflux, njengoba senza kunoma yikuphi okunye ukukhetha ocansini noma ezothando. Ukubona i-aroflux njengobunikazi obusemthethweni nobuhlukile kusiza ukukhuthaza ukubandakanywa nokuqonda emphakathini. Ngokwamukela lokhu kwehluka, singakha umhlaba obandakanya wonke umuntu lapho ukuzizwisa kwawo wonke umuntu nobunikazi bamukelwe futhi bubungazwe. Sengiphetha, i-aroflux yitemu elichaza abantu abahlangabezana nokuguquguquka komumo wabo wothando ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kuhlanganisa labo abahlonza njengabanephunga elimnandi kanye ne-asexual, futhi umuzwa wabo ungahluka futhi uhluke. Ngokuvuma nokuhlonipha okuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu be-aroflux, singakhuthaza ukubandakanywa nokwamukelwa emphakathini.

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