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Bhere (gay)

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Emphakathini we-LGBTQ, igama elithi "ibhere" libhekisela engxenyeni ethile yamadoda ayizitabane ngokuvamile ahlanganisa izici ezithile zomzimba nezokuziphatha. Amabhere aziwa ngemizimba yawo emikhulu futhi evamise ukuba noboya, futhi ngokuvamile abamba amahemuhemu noma amadoda. ukubukeka.Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi umphakathi wamabhere uhlukene, futhi abantu ngaphakathi kuwo bangaba nezinhlobo ezahlukene zomzimba, izitayela, kanye nezizinda.Esinye sezici ezichazayo zamabhere uboya bawo bomzimba.Amabhere amaningi amukela izinwele zawo zemvelo, futhi lesi sici somzimba sivame ukubungazwa phakathi komphakathi wamabhere.Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi akuwona wonke amabhere ahambisana nale nkolelo-mbono, futhi kunenhlobonhlobo yokubukeka nokubonakala emphakathini webhere.I-subculture yamabhere yavela emphakathini wezitabane njenge iqembu elihlukile lenhlalo namasiko. Inikeza umuzwa wokuba yingxenye kanye nokujwayelana kwabantu abahlonza ubunjalo bebhere. Amabhere avame ukuhlangana emicimbini yomphakathi, agijinywe amabhere, kanye nezindawo zamabhere lapho engakwazi ukuxhumana nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo abajabulela ukwabelana kwawo. ubunikazi bobuhle namasiko. Nakuba ukubukeka komzimba kudlala indima ekuchazeni umphakathi wamabhere, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukuba yibhere akukhona nje ukubukeka. Ubunikazi bebhele buhlanganisa izinhlobonhlobo zobuntu, izintshisekelo, nezizinda. Amabhere angaba eziphumayo, introverted, ezobuciko, athletic, nokuningi. Umphakathi wamabhere uyakwazisa ukubandakanywa nokwamukelwa, ukwamukela abantu abavela emikhakheni eyahlukene yempilo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubunikazi bebhele bubekela inselele imikhuba evamile yokukhanga phakathi komphakathi wezitabane. Ukugcizelelwa kokuqina komzimba nokwamukelwa emphakathini wamabhere kukhuthaza indawo ebandakanya wonke umuntu, okukhuthaza abantu ngabanye ukuthi bamukele imizimba yabo futhi benqabe izindinganiso zobuhle ezingenangqondo. Amabhere avame ukuhlela imicimbi kanye nemibuthano yokuzijabulisa ukuze akhuthaze umuzwa womphakathi. Lokhu kungabandakanya ukugijima kwebhere, lapho ababambiqhaza behlanganyela emisebenzini yomphakathi neyomzimba, kanye nemikhosi yamabhere ebungaza isiko lamabhere. Lezi zenzakalo zinikeza amathuba okuba amabhere axhumane, enze abangane, akhe ubudlelwano obuhlala njalo. Sengiphetha, umphakathi wamabhere phakathi kwe-LGBTQ spectrum umele indawo ehlukahlukene futhi ebandakanyayo lapho abantu abanezinhlobo ezihlukene zemizimba, ukubukeka, nezizinda behlangana ndawonye ukuze bagubhe ubunikazi babo obabiwe. Nakuba izici zomzimba ezifana nezinwele zomzimba zidlala indima ekuchazeni ubuhle bebhere, umphakathi ugcizelela kakhulu ukwamukelwa, ukubandakanywa, kanye nokwenqaba izindinganiso zobuhle eziwumngcingo. Amabhere akha i-subculture enempilo futhi esekelayo phakathi komphakathi omkhulu we-LGBTQ, ekhuthaza ukuxhumana nobudlelwano phakathi kwalabo abahlonza ubunjalo bebhere.

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