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Bi-genderflux

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I-Bi-genderflux isho ukukhonjwa kobulili obuhlanganisa izici zabo bobabili ubulili kuyilapho kunamandla aguquguqukayo noma ukuguquguquka. Abantu abazikhomba njenge-bi-genderflux bangase babe nomuzwa oshintshashintshayo wokuzicabangela ngaphakathi kwe-spectrum yobulili, ngezinye izikhathi bazizwe bexhumeke kakhulu kokukodwa. ubulili, bobabili ubulili ngokulinganayo, noma abekho nhlobo.Leli gama lisha futhi lihlanganisa ukuzizwisa okuhlukile nokuqonda ubulili.Ubunikazi bobulili yingxenye yokuzibona kwethu kanye nolwazi lwangaphakathi oluhlobene nendlela esizibonakalisa ngayo ngokobudoda. , ubufazi, noma inhlanganisela yakho kokubili. Kubalulekile ukuvuma ukuthi ubunikazi bobulili buhlukile ebulilini begazi, obunqunywa ukuba khona kwezici ezithile zomzimba nama-chromosome. Izigaba zobulili bendabuko, njengowesilisa nowesifazane, azanele ngaso sonke isikhathi. ukuze uthwebule inkimbinkimbi yokuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu.Abantu abane-Bi-genderflux banokuqonda okuhlukene kobulili babo futhi bangase bahlonze ubulili obubili ngesikhathi esisodwa, okungahluka ngokuqina nokuvelela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lobu bunikazi bubonisa ukuxhumana okuguquguqukayo kukho kokubili izici zobudoda nezowesifazane zobuntu babo, indlela abazizwa ngayo, nendlela abame ngayo. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho akugcini nje kulokho okulindelwe umphakathi noma imibono engaguquki; kunalokho, kuwukuziqonda okujulile komuntu siqu. Isiqalo esithi "bi-" ku-bi-genderflux sigqamisa ukuzizwisa ngasikhathi sinye ubulili obubili. Lokhu kuhlonza okukabili akusho ngempela ukuhlukanisa phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane kodwa kuhlanganisa ukuqashelwa izici eziningi ngaphakathi kwakho. Abantu abane-Bi-genderflux bangase baxhumane nobulili obubili kodwa bangavumelani nabo ngomqondo wendabuko. Ukushuba kokuxhumana kwabo kubulili obunye bungase buhluke, okuholela ekuzizweleni okugcwele kobunikazi bobulili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, igama elithi "fluctuation" ku-bi-genderflux lisho imvelo eguqukayo yalobu qobo. Ukuqina kokuxhumana nobulili obuthile bungashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuthonywe izici ezihlukahlukene ezifana nokukhula komuntu siqu, ukuzihlola, umongo womphakathi, nokusebenzelana komphakathi. Lokhu kuguquguquka kuvumela abantu ukuthi bahlole futhi bamukele izici ezihlukene zobunikazi babo bobulili futhi bachaze kabusha ukuziqonda kwabo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi i-bi-genderflux ayikhawuli abantu ebulilini bendabuko obubili. Esikhundleni salokho, ivuma ubunjalo obungeyona inambambili yokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu futhi inikeza uhlaka lokuqonda ubulili ngendlela enwebekayo nengenamanzi. Inhlanganisela yabo bobabili ubulili ku-bi-genderflux ingabandakanya ubunikazi obuhlukahlukene, njengokuhlanganiswa kowesilisa nowesifazane, owesilisa nobulili, owesifazane nobulili, nanoma iyiphi enye inhlanganisela ehambisana nomuntu ngamunye. Abantu abane-Bi-genderflux bangasebenzisa izindlela ezihlukene ukuveza ubulili babo ngokuhambisana nobunikazi babo, njengezimpahla zokugqoka, izinwele zezinwele, izintandokazi zezabizwana, nokukhetha amagama. Abanye bangase bakhethe ukwethula okwengeziwe kowesilisa noma owesifazane ngezinsuku ezithile, kuyilapho abanye bangase bamukele ukubukeka okune-androgynous noma okungathathi hlangothi kobulili ngokungaguquki. Lezi zinketho zinikeza abantu amandla okuveza ubulili babo ngokuyiqiniso futhi bakhe umuzwa wokuqondanisa phakathi kobunikazi babo bangaphakathi kanye nokwethulwa kwangaphandle. Kubalulekile ukudala izikhala ezibandakanya wonke umuntu futhi kukhuthaze ukuqonda kanye nokwamukelwa kwabantu ababili be-genderflux kanye nolwazi lwabo. Ukubona nokuqinisekisa ubunikazi babo obuhlukile kukhulisa ukuqonda kwethu ukunotha nokwehluka ngaphakathi kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu. Ukwandisa ukuqwashisa nolwazi mayelana nobunikazi obuhlukahlukene bobulili njenge-bi-genderflux kungaba nomthelela emphakathini obandakanya wonke umuntu nowamukelayo lapho wonke umuntu ezizwa ebonwa, ehlonishwa, futhi ehlonishwa ngalokho ayikho.

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