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Demiboyflux

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I-Demiboyflux igama elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza ubunjalo bobulili bomuntu obuwela ngaphakathi kwenqwaba yezinto ezingezona kanambambili. Lobu bunikazi obuhlukile buhlanganisa kokubili i-demiboy kanye ne-genderflux, okugqamisa uketshezi nokuguquguqukayo kokuhlangenwe nakho kobulili komuntu. Ukuze ubambe ngokugcwele incazelo ye-demiboyflux , kubalulekile ukuqonda izingxenye ngazinye ezakha leli gama. Okokuqala, i-demiboy ibhekisela kubunikazi bobulili obuqondana ngokwengxenye, kodwa hhayi ngokugcwele, nobulili besilisa. Abantu be-Demiboy bangase babonakale njengabesilisa ngokwezinga elithile, kodwa futhi bazizwa ukuxhumana nobunye ubulili noma ukuzwa ubulili babo njengokuguquguquka noma uketshezi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lokhu kushintshashintsha kobulili kulapho kungena khona i-genderflux. I-Genderflux igama elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza lapho ubunikazi bomuntu bushintshashintsha ngamandla. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umuzwa wabo wokuba wesilisa noma ukukhomba njenge-demiboy kungahluka ngamandla ngezikhathi ezihlukene. Isibonelo, othile ohlonza njenge-demiboyflux angase azizwe ehambisana ngokuqinile nobulili besilisa ngolunye usuku, kuyilapho ezizwa exhumene kakhulu nobunye ubulili noma ezizwa engaqiniseki ngobunjalo bobulili ngolunye usuku. Lokhu ketshezi kungaba kokubili okukhululayo futhi kube inselele, njengoba kuvumela umuzwa wokuhlola nokuzihlola, kodwa kungase futhi kuholele ekudidekeni noma ekwahluleleni kwabanye abangase bangaqondi noma bangawamukeli lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okushukumisayo. Abantu be-Demiboyflux bavame ukuthola induduzo ekuvezeni ubunikazi babo ngokusebenzisa izabizwana abazithandayo kanye nezethulo zobulili. Izabizwana zidlala indima enkulu ekuqinisekiseni nasekuqinisekiseni ubunjalo bobulili bomuntu, futhi labo abahlonza njenge-demiboyflux bangase bakhethe izabizwana ezibonisa ukugeleza kwazo, njengokusebenzisa izabizwana zakhe. Lokhu kuvumela ukuqashelwa nokuqashelwa kobunikazi babo besilisa, kuyilapho kuhlonipha ukushintshashintsha okungaba khona kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kobulili. Ukwethulwa kobulili, okuhlanganisa okokugqoka, izinwele zezinwele, nezinye izici zokuvezwa komuntu siqu, kungase futhi kube umthombo wokuhlola nokunika amandla abantu abangabodwana be-demiboyflux. Abanye bangase bathambekele ekugqokeni ngokwesiko kowesilisa noma ubulili, kanti abanye bangase bazame ngezinhlobo eziningi zezitayela ezibonisa ukuguquguquka kobulili babo. Abantu be-Demiboyflux bangase bahlangabezane nezinselele ezihlukahlukene uma kuziwa ekuzulazuleni imibono yomphakathi kanye nokulindelweyo. Kwabaningi, ukuqonda nokwamukela ubunikazi obungeyona kanambambili kungaba umqondo onzima ukuwuqonda. Izinkambiso zobulili zendabuko zivame ukungabi nolimi olubandakanyayo kanye nokuqonda okudingekayo ukuze kwamukelwe abantu abangabodwana kanambambili ngokugcwele. Lokhu kungaholela ekwenziweni okungavumelekile, ukubandlululwa, noma ingcindezi yokuhambisana nokulindelwe ubulili obumbaxambili. Kodwa-ke, ukuqwashisa okukhulayo kanye nokwamukelwa kobunikazi obungeyona kanambambili kukhulisa kancane kancane umphakathi obandakanya wonke umuntu noqondayo. Ukwesekwa nomphakathi kudlala indima ebalulekile ezimpilweni zabantu be-demiboyflux. Ukuthola abantu abanomqondo ofanayo ababelana ngolwazi olufanayo kungaba semqoka ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi ungubani futhi uzulazule ezinseleleni ezivelayo. Izinkundla eziku-inthanethi, amaqembu osekelo, nezinhlangano ze-LGBTQ+ zihlinzeka ngezikhala eziphephile kubantu be-demiboyflux ukuze baxhume, babelane ngezinsiza, futhi bafune isiqondiso kwabanye abaluqondayo futhi abalwazisayo uhambo lwabo oluyingqayizivele. Le miphakathi ayinikezi nje kuphela ukwesekwa kodwa futhi isebenza njengesisusa sokumela kanye noshintsho emphakathini. Sengiphetha, i-demiboyflux ubunikazi bobulili obuhlanganisa uketshezi lwakho kokubili i-demiboy kanye ne-genderflux. Imele umuntu ozihlanganisa kancane nobulili besilisa kodwa futhi ohlangabezana nokushintshashintsha kobulili noma okushintshashintshayo. Izabizwana kanye nokwethulwa kobulili kuyizici ezibalulekile zokuveza lobu buwena, futhi imiphakathi eyesekayo idlala indima ebalulekile ekukhuliseni nasekuqinisekiseni laba bantu. Njengoba umphakathi uhlanganisa wonke umuntu futhi uqondana, abantu be-demiboyflux bangaqhubeka nokuhlola, ukugubha, nokwamukela izinhlobonhlobo zobunikazi bobulili.

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