I-Demisexuality yitemu elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza abantu abahlangabezana nokuthambekela kocansi okwaziwa ngokuthi i-demisexuality. Kuyindlela eyaziwa kancane, ewela ngaphansi kwe-asexual spectrum. Abantu abathanda ubulili babonakala ngokuba nomuzwa olinganiselwe noma ongekho wokukhangwa ucansi kuze kube yilapho benamandla. sekusungulwe ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo nomunye umuntu. Igama elithi "demisexual" lisuselwa kusiqalo "demi-" esisho uhhafu, kanye "nocansi," ngokuhlobene nokukhangwa ucansi. Laqanjwa ilungu lomphakathi ongashadile. , eqanjwe i-AVEN (Asexual Visibility and Education Network). Ubungqingili bugcizelela ukubaluleka kokusondelana ngokomzwelo, ukwethembana, nokuxhumana ngaphambi kokukhangwa ucansi ngomunye umuntu. Ngokungafani nokuthambekela kocansi okuvame ukwaziwa njengobungqingili, ubungqingili, noma abathandana nabobulili obubili. ayizungezi into ekhangayo kodwa kunalokho indlela ukukhangwa okwenzeka ngayo, igcizelela ukuhlangana kwemizwelo nokuxhumana okujulile. Abantu abanobulili obufanayo bavame ukubhekana nezinselele ekuqondeni isipiliyoni sabo ngenxa yokuntula ulwazi noma ukubonakala okuzungezile lokhu kuqondiswa. Esinye sezici ezichazayo zokungabi nabuhlobo bobulili imfuneko yokuxhumana okujulile ngokomzwelo ngaphambi kokuthola ukukhangwa ngokocansi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abantu abanobulili obufanayo ngokuvamile abazizwa benesifiso socansi noma ukukhangwa ngokusekelwe ekubukekeni komzimba, izimfanelo ezikha phezulu, noma okulindelwe umphakathi. Kunalokho, bavame ukuthuthukisa ukukhangwa kuphela ngemva kokwakha isibopho esiqinile ngokomzwelo nomunye umuntu. Lokhu kuxhumana okungokomzwelo kungathatha isikhathi futhi kuvame ukwakhiwa ngokuqondana, ukuba sengozini, nokwethembana. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuhlukana kwabantu ngokobulili akuhambisani nokungahloniphi, naphezu kokuthi kungaphakathi kwe-asexual spectrum. Yize abantu abathanda ucansi bengase bangakhangi nhlobo ngokocansi, abantu abathanda ucansi banethuba lokukhangwa ucansi kodwa badinga ukusondelana ngokomzwelo njengemfuneko. Ukungahloniphi ngokobulili kuhlanganisiwe futhi kungakhonjwa kanye nezinye iziqondiso zobulili. Isibonelo, umuntu angase ahlonze njengomuntu onobulili obuhlukile futhi uthanda ubulili obuhlukile, okusho ukuthi ukhangwa ngokocansi kuphela ngemva kokwakha isibopho esijulile somzwelo nomuntu wobulili obuhlukile. Ngokufanayo, othile angase ahlonze njengomuntu onobulili obufanayo futhi othanda ubulili obubili, othola ukukhangwa kuphela ngemva kokwakha isibopho esijulile somzwelo nomuntu oziveza njengowesilisa noma owesifazane, ngaphandle kokunaka ubulili bakhe. Ukuqashelwa nokuqonda ukuhlukana kwabantu ngokobulili kusakhula emphakathini, okuholela emibonweni eminingi eyiphutha kanye nemibono engajwayelekile. Abanye abantu bangase benze iphutha lokuhlukana kwabantu bobulili obufanayo ngokuba nobuhlakani, amahloni, noma ukukhetha nje. Ngenxa yokugcizelela komphakathi ekuheheni ucansi ngokushesha, abantu abathanda ubulili bangase bazizwe benengcindezi yokuthi bavumelane noma bangaqondwa kahle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuntuleka kokubonakala nokuqonda mayelana nokuhlukana kwabantu bobulili obufanayo kungase kuholele ekutheni abanye abantu bazizwe bebodwa, bengajwayelekile, noma sengathi kukhona okungalungile ngabo ngokwemvelo. Kubalulekile ukugqugquzela ukuqwashisa, imfundo, kanye nezingxoxo ezivulelekile mayelana nokuqedwa kwabantu bobulili obufanayo ukuze kugqugquzelwe ukubandakanywa kanye nokudala indawo eyamukeleka kakhudlwana. Sengiphetha, ukuhlukana kwabantu bobulili obufanayo kuwukuthambekela kwezocansi okugcizelela imfuneko yokuxhumana okujulile ngokomzwelo ngaphambi kokuthola ukukhangwa ngokocansi. Itholakala phakathi kwe-asexual spectrum futhi ihlukile kwezinye izindawo njengoba igxile endleleni ukukhangwa okutholwa ngayo kunethagethi yokukhangwa. Ukuqashelwa nokuqonda ukuhlukana kwabantu bobulili obufanayo kubalulekile ekukhuthazeni ukubandakanywa kanye nokuhlinzeka ngosekelo kubantu abahlobana nalokhu kuthambekela. Ngokuphromotha imfundo nokuqwashisa, singakha umphakathi owamukela kakhudlwana lapho abantu bazo zonke izici zobulili bengachuma ngaphandle kokwahlulela noma ukucabanga okuyiphutha.