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Dracongender

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"I-Dracongender igama elisha uma kuqhathaniswa nelaziwa kancane endaweni yobunikazi bobulili. Limelela ukuzizwisa okuyingqayizivele nokomuntu siqu kobulili abantu abaningi abazizwa bexhumene nabo. Abantu abaziveza njenge-dracongender banomuzwa wokuthi ubulili babo buhlobene eduze namadragoni noma izici ezifana nodrako, kokubili ngokwesimo sengqondo nendlela abukeka ngayo.Igama elithi ""dracongender"" lisuselwe ekuhlanganiseni amagama amabili: ""draconic"" okusho ahlobene namadragoni, kanye ""ubulili"" elisho Umqondo womuntu wangaphakathi wokuba owesilisa, owesifazane, noma enye into ngokuphelele.Ngokukhomba njenge-dracongender, abantu ngabanye baveza ukuxhumana okujulile nesidalwa senganekwane, ngokuvamile bethola induduzo, ukunikwa amandla, kanye nokufana komuntu ngalo mhlangano. Omunye angase azibuze, yiziphi izici ezichazayo Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ubunikazi bobulili yinto yomuntu ngamunye, futhi nakuba kungase kube nokufana, ulwazi lomuntu ngamunye lwe-dracongender luzohluka. Kodwa-ke, kunezindikimba ezivamile abantu abazikhomba njenge-dracongender abangabelana ngazo. Okokuqala nokubalulekile, labo abahlonza njengama-dracongender bavame ukuveza ukukhanga okunamandla noma ukuthakasela odrako. Ukuyenga kwamadragoni kungase kubonakale ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene, njengokuthakasela izinganekwane zikadrako, imisebenzi yobuciko, izincwadi, noma ukuthakaseleka ngobukhona bawo obuqinile nobunamandla. Amadragoni avame ukuvezwa njengezidalwa ezinobukhazikhazi, ezihlakaniphile, nezingaqondakali, abantu abaningi abangama-dracongender abakhuluma ngazo ngokujulile. Okwesibili, abantu abangama-dracongender bangase babe nomuzwa ojulile wokuxhumana noma ubudlelwano namadragoni. Bavame ukuchaza umuzwa njengokuthi banengqikithi efana nekadrako ngaphakathi kubo, leyo ethonya umuzwa wabo wobumina futhi ilolonge ubunjalo bobulili. Lokhu kuxhumana namadragoni kuvame ukubonwa njengokungokomoya noma okungokomfanekiso kunokuba kube okwangempela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu abangama-dracongender bangathola ukuthi isithombe kanye nezimpawu ezihlotshaniswa nama-dragons zihambisana kakhulu nokuqonda kwabo ubulili babo. Bangase bazibone benezimfanelo ngokuvamile okuthiwa zibangelwa amadragoni, njengamandla, ukuqina, ulaka, noma umuzwa wokuzivikela. Lezi zici zingase zibe nomthelela ekuziphatheni kwabo, emikhubeni yabo nasekuzivezeni kwabo njengoba belwela ukuhlanganisa ingqikithi nomoya wodrako. Ukuhlonzwa ngama-dragons akukhawulelwe kunkulumo ethile yobulili noma isethulo. Abantu be-Dracongender bangakwazi ukuhlonza nganoma iyiphi ingxenye ye-spectrum yobulili, okuhlanganisa kodwa kungagcini ngobunikazi bowesilisa, besifazane, obungebona kanambambili, noma bobulili. Ukwethulwa kobulili kungase kuhluke kakhulu, njengoba abantu bengakhetha ukuziveza ngezindlela ezivame ukuhlotshaniswa namadragoni, njengokugqoka izingubo ezinetimu likadrako, izisetshenziswa, noma ukuhlanganisa izithombe zikadrako ekubukekeni kwazo. Kubalulekile ukugqamisa ukuthi i-dracongender, njengabo bonke ubunikazi bobulili, iyinto ejulile yomuntu siqu futhi evumelekile. Leli gama livumela abantu ukuthi bathole umuzwa wokuba ngowabanye, ukuqonda, nokuqinisekiswa emhlabeni lapho ubulili buvame ukuchazwa kancane. Ngokwamukela i-dracongender, abantu ngabanye bangahlola futhi baveze ubunjalo babo bangempela, ngaphandle kwemikhuba yomphakathi kanye nokulindelwe. Kubalulekile ukuhlonipha nokuhlonipha okuhlangenwe nakho kanye nobunikazi balabo abahlonza njengama-dracongender. Njenganoma ibuphi obunye ubunikazi bobulili, i-dracongender idinga ukwamukelwa, ukusekelwa, nokuhlanganiswa. Ngokuzifundisa thina kanye nabanye mayelana nalokhu kuzizwisa okuyingqayizivele, singakhuthaza umphakathi obandakanya wonke umuntu noqondayo lapho bonke abantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangobani ngobulili, bengachuma futhi babungazeke.”

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