I-Duragender iwuphawu olungezona olunambambili olungena ngaphansi kwesambulela esibanzi sobunikazi bobulili noma okungezona kanambambili. Umqondo obekela inselele ukuqonda okungokwesiko kanambambili kobulili futhi uhlanganisa umuzwa wokuzikhukhumeza noguquguqukayo njalo. I-Duragender iyayilahla. umqondo wokuvalelwa kubunikazi bobulili obubodwa futhi esikhundleni salokho wamukele umqondo wokuba inhlanganisela noma ingxube yobulili obuningi, noma ukuba nobunikazi bobulili obushintshayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Igama elithi "duragender" laba khona njengendlela yokuveza ulwazi lwabantu abangazizwa bexhumene ngokuqinile noma obuhlala njalo kunoma ibuphi ubunikazi bobulili obuthile. Bangase babe nomuzwa wokungaqondakali kobulili noma ukuntula ubulili ngokuphelele, okuholela ekwamukelweni kokuqonda okwengeziwe nokuguquguqukayo kobunikazi babo bobulili. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi i-duragender ayisona isimo esimile noma esingashintshi kodwa iwumqondo oguquguqukayo nosamanzi, lapho abantu bezizwa behluke ngobulili ngezikhathi ezihlukene noma bengazizwa nhlobo nhlobo. Abantu be-Duragender bangase bazizwe bexhumene kuzo zombili izici zobulili zesilisa nesifazane, kanye nobunye ubunikazi bobulili ngale kwalokho kanambambili. Lokhu kungase kubonakale ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene, njengokwamukela izabizwana ezingakhethi bulili njengabo/noma ukusebenzisa inhlanganisela yezabizwana ezisuselwe esimisweni sazo sobulili esiwuketshezi. Abanye abantu abangabodwa bangase bakhethe ukuziveza ngendlela efiphalisa noma ephonsela inselelo izinkambiso zendabuko zobulili, okuhlanganisa izici ngokuvamile ezihlotshaniswa nakho kokubili ubudoda nobufazi. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi i-duragender yigama elibandakanyayo elivulekele ukutolika kanye nolwazi lomuntu siqu. Abantu abahlonza njenge-duragender bangase babe nokuzizwisa okuhlukahlukene kanye nokuvezwa kobunikazi babo bobulili. Abanye bangase bazizwe besondelene kakhulu ezicini ezithile zobudoda noma zesifazane, kuyilapho abanye bangase bangazihloniphi nhlobo noma iziphi izimpawu zobulili ezimbambambili noma eziqashelwa ngokwesiko. Ukuqonda nokwamukela i-duragender njengobunikazi bobulili obusemthethweni kubalulekile emphakathini ofuna ukuhlanganisa kanye nokweseka isipiliyoni esihlukahlukene. Kudingeka ukuthi kwamukelwe ukuqonda okunwetshiwe nokuncane ngobulili, sivume ukuthi bungashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshayo, bube nobuningi, futhi buhluke kumuntu ngamunye. Ngokubona nokuhlonipha okuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu be-duragender, singasebenzela ukudala umphakathi obandakanya wonke umuntu lapho wonke umuntu engaveza ubunikazi bakhe bobulili ngokuyiqiniso nangaphandle kokwahlulela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuqashelwa kwe-duragender njengobunikazi bobulili obusemthethweni inselele okulindelwe umphakathi kanye nezinkambiso ezihambisana nobulili. Iphakamisa imibuzo mayelana nokuqina kwezindima zobulili kanye nemikhawulo ebekwe kubantu ngabanye ngokusekelwe ocansini ababelwe lona ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Ngokwamukela i-duragender njengobunikazi obusemthethweni, umphakathi ungadlulela ekuqondeni okuhlanganisayo nokulingana ngobulili, lapho abantu bekhululekile ukuhlola futhi baveze ubunikazi babo bobulili ngokwalokho abahlangabezane nakho kanye nezifiso zabo. Sengiphetha, i-duragender iwukuhlonza kobulili okunganabo kanambambili obubekela inselele ukuqonda ngokwesiko kobulili. Ichaza abantu abangase bazihlanganise nengxube yobulili, banqabe uhlaka olunambambili, noma babe nobunikazi obushintshashintshayo bobulili. Ukubona nokuhlonipha okuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu be-duragender kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ukubandakanywa kanye nokweseka ilungelo lawo wonke umuntu lokuveza ubunikazi babo bobulili ngokuyiqiniso. Ukwamukela umqondo we-duragender kuphusha imikhuba yomphakathi kanye nokulindelwe okuhambisana nobulili, kukhuthaze umphakathi obandakanya wonke umuntu nowamukelayo.