I-Femme yigama elinezincazelo ezijulile nezihlukene, ezibonisa inkimbinkimbi nokuguquguquka kobunikazi bobulili. Ngokuvamile lisetshenziselwa ukuchaza abantu abaziveza futhi baziveze njengabesifazane, futhi ikakhulukazi, abantu ababelwa abesifazane ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kodwa okungenzeka qondanisa ngokugcwele nemibono yendabuko yobufazi. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu besifazane abagcini nje kubantu besifazane abathile, njengoba abantu bobulili obuhlukahlukene nezinkulumo bengamukela futhi bahlanganise leli gama. Ngokomlando, igama elithi "femme" belinalo ihlotshaniswe nomphakathi we-LGBTQ+, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwemibuthano yabesifazane kanye nabesifazane, lapho isebenze njengendlela yokubuyisa ubufazi kanye nokubekela inselele okulindelwe umphakathi kanye nezinkambiso. ubufazi ngezindlela eziyingqayizivele neziyiqiniso.Enye yezinto ezibalulekile zokuthi umuntu wesifazane ungubani ukubungaza ubufazi njengomthombo wamandla, ukuqina, kanye nokunika amandla. Ivumela abantu ukuthi bachaze kabusha futhi bafune kabusha ubufazi ngokwemibandela yabo, baphonse inselelo imibono yomphakathi ekhawulelayo ehlobanisa ubufazi nokungenzi lutho, ubuthakathaka, noma ukuzithoba. I-Femme identity ibona futhi ithokozela amandla ne-ejensi engatholakala ekwamukeleni nasekuvezeni ubufazi, ihlanganisa izinhlobonhlobo zezinkulumo ezihlanganisa imfashini, izimonyo, izinwele zezinwele, nokunye ukukhetha kobuhle. Kubalulekile ukugqamisa ukuthi ubunikazi besifazane abuyona i-monolithic noma i-static; ihluke njengabantu ngabanye abazihlanganisa nayo. Wonke umuntu wesifazane unesipiliyoni esiyingqayizivele sobufazi, okuthonywa ubunikazi babo obuhlanganayo kanye nohambo lomuntu siqu. Ubunikazi besifazane buvumela izinhlobonhlobo zezinkulumo, kusukela kokuthambile nokuthambile kuye kokugqamile nokugomelayo, kusukela kokubukekayo kuye kokuvukela umbuso, ukusuka kokuncane ukuya kokuwubukhazikhazi. Iyavuma ukuthi ayikho indlela elingana yonke into yowesifazane futhi ikhuthaza ukuziveza okubonisa ngokweqiniso izwe lomuntu langaphakathi. I-Femme identity iphinda inselele ekuqondeni okuqinile kanambambili kobulili, ngokuqaphela ukuthi ubulili buyisakhiwo somphakathi esinokuhlukahluka okuningi kanye nokungenzeka. Ngakho-ke, abantu besifazane bangase bahlanganise kokubili izimfanelo zesilisa nezesifazane ngokwesiko, bephikisana nombono wokuthi ubulili buyisigaba esingaguquki futhi esihlukene. Lokhu kuguquguquka kanye nokuhlangana phakathi kobunikazi besifazane kwenza abantu bakwazi ukuzulazula ezinkingeni zohambo lwabo lobulili futhi bamukele ukuziqonda kwabo okuphelele. Ubunikazi besifazane buhlangana nezinye izici zobuwena, okuhlanganisa uhlanga, ubuzwe, isigaba, ikhono, namasiko. Kubalulekile ukuvuma ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kobunikazi besifazane kuhlukile kubantu abavela ezizindeni ezihlukene, njengoba ukuphambana kobulili nobunye ubunikazi bomphakathi bubumba ulwazi lomuntu wesifazane. Abantu bebala kanye nabantu abavela emiphakathini enganakiwe bavame ukubhekana nezinselele eziyingqayizivele kanye nokucwaswa okuhlobene nobunikazi babo besifazane, okumele kubhekwane nakho futhi kuqedwe ngenkuthalo. Kafushane, i-femme yitemu elinika amandla nelibandakanyayo elivumela abantu ukuthi bamukele futhi bagubhe ubunikazi babo besifazane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili buni ababelwe lapho bezalwa. Kuyindlela ebheke ekuzitholeni, ubuqiniso, kanye nokunika amandla, inselele ezinkambisweni nezilindelwe zomphakathi. Ubunikazi besifazane buhlanganisa ukunotha nokwehlukahlukana kobulili besifazane, okuvumela abantu ngabanye ukuba baveze imibono yabo ngezindlela ezihlukile nezihlukile. Ngobunikazi besifazane, abantu bathola amandla, ukuqina, kanye nomphakathi, kwakha indawo lapho wonke umuntu engachuma khona futhi abe ngokuzimela.